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How To Know If She Likes You

Posted by Unknown | miercuri, 29 august 2012 | Posted in ,

Does She Like Me?

  • What You Need To Know
  • As soon as you start wondering whether she likes you, you lose your cool.
  • Take control: Realize that how you feel about her is more important than how she feels about you.
  • Attract incredible women by being your true, authentic self.
"The minute you walk around wondering, 'Does she like me?' you’re basically giving your power away to her..."
No matter what age you are, no matter what stage in life you’re at, the moment you feel that you like a woman, you start terrorizing your friends with this question: “Does she like me?” You rally all of them. You might go out in a group or call friends up individually and ask each of them, “Can you let me know what you think -- does she like me?” And you'll start going over some of the things she's done. You’re starving for their opinions. 
Here's the issue -- the issue we all forget: The minute you walk around wondering, “Does she like me?” you’re basically giving your power away to her, without even realizing it. Then, the next time you see her when you go out on a date, you're not really yourself because you're so caught up with wondering if she likes you and wanting her to like you that you hold back who you really are. And in dating, isn't that the whole point? 

In order to get the ending right -- to finally find that great woman you could spend eternity with, or at least happily ever after for two years -- you need to find someone who likes you (and is dating you) for who you are instead of liking you for who they think you are. You need to stop worrying about if she likes you, and you need to flip the switch and the power. You need to think: Do you like her? Is she somebody you can hang with? Is she somebody you can envision going on vacation with? Is she somebody you'd like to wake up with in the morning? Is she sexually compatible with you? Do you like the way she moves? Do you like the way she talks? Do you like the way she takes care of herself? And most important, are you able to be 100 percent authentic in front of her? Are you being yourself, or are you just being a version of yourself in order to get her to like you? 

The minute I stopped worrying whether a girl liked me and started being myself in every situation, I had an endless supply of women liking me. The funny thing is, I didn't like many of them. I found they were actually spending time trying to get me to like them instead of just being themselves.

So I've been where you are, and I've seen both sides of it. And let me tell you, if you flip the switch and start to do the things I advise above, you're never going to call another friend to ask whether the girl you like likes you back. You're never going to worry about whether she likes you. You're going to have complete control, complete power -- and you're going to attract the most incredible women. The eternal question “Does she like me?” won’t be a question anymore.

Chuck Bass: Style Breakdown

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Chuck Bass Lookbook
Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl - Style Lookbook
Key Component #1: Print
In earlier seasons, Chuck’s style came with a slight preppy edge; he had a penchant for knits, cravats and argyle print in particular. Reflective of his character, he has never been one to shy away from a statement piece. Bold prints and colours have held a special place in Mr Bass’ wardrobe – the shark sweater and iconic J Press scarf were especially notable.
As the character has matured, his style has taken a similar turn. Print and colour still play a part, but gone are the days of tipped trenches and provocative shades. Mr Bass’ style is much more refined, reflecting the change in his character from a boy billionaire to a man with a shrewd sense of business and style (the penchant for womanising is still all too familiar though). This change in character hasn’t, thankfully, changed the core of Chuck’s style.
Key Component #2: Tailoring
Tailoring has forever ruled supreme in the world of Bass. His style is the embodiment of sartorial excellence; from detail to fit, nothing ever goes unconsidered. knots have always been perfectly dimpled and pockets appropriately full – usually with a favoured paisley print (or something purple).
The current (fifth) season of Gossip Girl is a reiteration of this mantra, as it has seen Bass adopt the knit lapel pin as an everyday part of his style. While most men skip over lapels when putting together an outfit, a pin or boutonniereadds that little bit extra in the way of individuality.
Ultimately, Chuck takes the stiffness out of tailoring; he makes it appear dangerous through the use of carefully selected accessories and a carefree, effortless attitude.
Chuck Bass Inspired Clothing
  • Austin Reed 110th Anniversary Blue Textured JacketAustin Reed 110th Anniversary Blue Textured Jacket
  • Reiss Weatherby Db Classic Double Breasted Suit NavyReiss Weatherby Db Classic Double Breasted Suit Navy
  • Asos Skinny Fit Grey Check SuitAsos Skinny Fit Grey Check Suit
  • Turnbull & Asser Contrast-collar Striped Cotton ShirtTurnbull & Asser Contrast-collar Striped Cotton Shirt
  • Jaeger Blue With Red Stripe ShirtJaeger Blue With Red Stripe Shirt
  • Topman Blue Double Cuff Best ShirtTopman Blue Double Cuff Best Shirt
  • Ben Sherman Camden Pin Dot Sheen TrousersBen Sherman Camden Pin Dot Sheen Trousers
  • Reiss Fenchurch Slim Fit Tailored Trousers Light GreyReiss Fenchurch Slim Fit Tailored Trousers Light Grey
  • Topman Peoples Market BlazerTopman Peoples Market Blazer
  • Collezione Pure Cashmere Single Breasted 3 Button CoatCollezione Pure Cashmere Single Breasted 3 Button Coat
  • Turnbull & Asser Classic Paisley Woven-silk TieTurnbull & Asser Classic Paisley Woven-silk Tie
  • Reiss Flounder Paisley Print Cotton Airforce BlueReiss Flounder Paisley Print Cotton Airforce Blue
  • Lanvin Buttonhole Flower PinLanvin Buttonhole Flower Pin
  • Austin Reed Red Leather Clip BracesAustin Reed Red Leather Clip Braces
  • Turnbull & Asser Paisley-print Silk Pocket SquareTurnbull & Asser Paisley-print Silk Pocket Square
  • Topman Burgundy Geo Pocket SquareTopman Burgundy Geo Pocket Square
  • Churchs Suede Bampton Monk-strap ShoesChurchs Suede Bampton Monk-strap Shoes
  • Reiss Whiterock Seam Detail Oxford Shoes TanReiss Whiterock Seam Detail Oxford Shoes Tan
The Bass Look on a Budget
At this point, I usually put together a series of example outfits. However, the lack of diversity in Chuck Bass’ look would make it somewhat limited. The style breakdown and lookbook above should give you the kind of detail needed to take inspiration from.
As an alternative, I’m going to put together a Chuck Bass look on a limited budget. As his style is very expensive (the man is, after all, a billionaire) and his wardrobe is sourced from the likes of Brooks Brothers and Turnbull & Asser, which fall out of the regular price range for many.
To start, you want a good suit with a slim fit and modern cut. By modern cut I mean the jacket shouldn’t go to far past your backside – a bum freezer if you will – and the waist should be tapered to some degree.
At a lower price range, the materials used aren’t going to be premium, but aim for something with a good proportion of natural fibres. This Marks and Spencer suit is 50% wool but at £149 it’s relatively well-priced considering the rates you can find yourself paying for 80%+ polyester equivalents.
If you’re working with a budget, pick a neutral colour for additional versatility. This indigo/navy is perfect and works great if your going to apply the Chuck Bass ethos of print, pattern and colour for the peripherals.
Moving on to the shirt. In my opinion, a stiff collar looks far better with a silk tie than a soft collar. For a good stiff collar, traditional shirt makers are often the best, such as Hawes & Curtis, Charles Tyrwhitt etc. Shopping the sales and flash promotions are a great way to find excellent examples at better prices. This stripe shirt from Charles Tyrwhitt is currently just under &20.
A navy silk spotted tie works great with the pink in the shirt. If you’re not sure on spots, paisley is also a fantastic choice with stripes. Don’t forget to pop in a pocket square in a Bass favoured puff fold.
Finally, brown shoes are a given when working with a navy suit. These 100% leather Derbies are a solid choice. Sock-wise, look to compliment your trousers and have the colour work with the rest of the palette of your wardrobe; these pink-ish socks do just that and are great for this look.
  • Autograph 2 Button Slim Fit Suit With WoolAutograph 2 Button Slim Fit Suit With Wool
  • Austin Reed Non Iron Pink Dobby Stripe ShirtAustin Reed Non Iron Pink Dobby Stripe Shirt
  • Navy Paisley Pocket SquareNavy Paisley Pocket Square
  • Reiss Morton Oxford Dot Tie BlueReiss Morton Oxford Dot Tie Blue
  • Topman Pink Neppy SocksTopman Pink Neppy Socks
  • Asos Lace Up Derby ShoesAsos Lace Up Derby Shoes
Conclusion
It’s safe to say that the finer details are what make Chuck Bass’ style standout. Whether it’s the aforementioned ties and pocket squares, the spread collar shirts or the statement socks, everything is given some attention and nothing is ever missed.
But what do you think of his look?
  • Are you a fan of the Chuck Bass look?
  • Do you think all style icons can be replicated on a budget?
  • Does his attention to detail match up to other icons?

Camel Coats

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Camel Overcoat Lookbook – GQ.com
Men's Traditional Camel Overcoat Lookbook by GQ
How To Style
As you can see in the lookbook, the camel overcoat is much more versatile than you initially think. Keeping the fit slim and sharp is imperative, and will allow you to utilise it with more fashion forward items such as slim/skinny jeans and even bold coloured chinos. My favourite look above is the Riveira Chic outfit [top left], which pairs the overcoat with white jeans and a simple t-shirt. Although I would probably be a little more considered with the footwear choice, it goes to show that the look can be adapted to youthful and modern.
Notice how camel seems to make every item you pair with it ‘pop’. Colours seem bolder and richer, whilst monochromes come alive and really play off the neutral tone. This means you can literally pair it with everything in your current wardrobe – even other beige/cream tones if you make sure you alter the hue slightly to provide the contrast.
Of course, the camel overcoat lends itself very well to smart-casual looks. It is naturally a refined piece, so smart-casual footwear such as brogues, suede shoes and relaxed loafers will all look superb and help compliment the slightly more refined undertones. For those looking to inject some life into the look, bold coloured socks, patterned tops and your trademark accessories will all help casual down the look slightly and give you that personality and individuality you desire.
  • J.crew Mayfair Wool-blend CoatJ.crew Mayfair Wool-blend Coat
  • Br Monogram Camel Double-breasted JacketBr Monogram Camel Double-breasted Jacket
  • Etro Wool-blend CoatEtro Wool-blend Coat
  • Acne Winston Wool-blend CoatAcne Winston Wool-blend Coat
  • Paul Smith Double-breasted Camel CoatPaul Smith Double-breasted Camel Coat
  • Jil Sander Camel CoatJil Sander Camel Coat
The Camel Jacket
For those of you that cannot shake off the formal connotations associated with the camel overcoat, there are still options for you. A wide range of camel jackets are now available from a multitude of brands and designers – from premium fashion houses to the high street. Everything from duffle coats and blazers to dyed denim jackets and trench coats are available, so you are sure to find one that suits your personal style and current wardrobe.
Of course, the camel colour will still integrate seamlessly within your existing wardrobe, whilst offering the same benefits that the overcoat provides – namely versatility and the ability to bring your other items to life.
Camel Jacket Lookbook
Men's Camel Jackets & Coats Lookbook
  • Asos Coloured Denim JacketAsos Coloured Denim Jacket
  • French Connection Kicksies Canvas JacketFrench Connection Kicksies Canvas Jacket
  • Carhartt Squire CoatCarhartt Squire Coat
  • Diesel Jiccon Trench CoatDiesel Jiccon Trench Coat
  • J.crew Holborn Trench CoatJ.crew Holborn Trench Coat
  • Br Monogram Camel BlazerBr Monogram Camel Blazer
  • E Tautz Tweed BlazerE Tautz Tweed Blazer
  • Ralph Lauren Black Label Anthony Wool Sport CoatRalph Lauren Black Label Anthony Wool Sport Coat
  • Folk Waterproof RaincoatFolk Waterproof Raincoat
  • French Connection Kicksies Canvas CoatFrench Connection Kicksies Canvas Coat
  • Peter Werth 4 Pocket Military JacketPeter Werth 4 Pocket Military Jacket
  • Fred Perry Camel Duffle CoatFred Perry Camel Duffle Coat
  • Gloverall Made In England Melton Wool Rope Toggle Duffle CoatGloverall Made In England Melton Wool Rope Toggle Duffle Coat
  • Burton Camel Hooded Toggle Duffle CoatBurton Camel Hooded Toggle Duffle Coat
  • Marni Classic Wool-blend PeacoatMarni Classic Wool-blend Peacoat
Conclusion
The camel overcoat is an iconic piece of menswear that is now more wearable than ever. It will take both formal and casual looks to the next level, whilst providing that key individuality and separation from the crowd that most men desire. In a day and age when everybody is looking for an edge, the camel overcoat may just provide that for all the professionals out there. Easy to integrate within your current wardrobe, it makes other colours and neutrals come alive and provides the perfect backdrop for all your existing outfit combinations.
There are also plenty of alternatives out there for the younger or edgy types who love the camel colour but want something a bit more contemporary or modern. Whether you are looking for a new trench coat, quilted jacket or blazer to upgrade your smart-casual looks, they are all available today and provide much of the same versatility that the overcoat does.